Some examples of ways to build self confidence and take control.
| Scenario | Confidence Builder |
| Speaking up at a meeting |
Don't sit in silence at a meeting. Aim to say at least one thing! Start with compliments, for example, if a colleague shared a good idea tell them. 'I think that is a good idea Liz' 'Hey I hadn't thought of that' |
| Sharing views at a meeting |
Instead of coming up with ideas yourself, add to a colleagues ideas. eg John - 'I think we should send a copy of the latest brochure to ABC Limited' You - 'What a good idea, we could send a sample too!' |
| Nervous about a meeting |
Call the person to ask a question relevant to the meeting (or not!). Here you may be able to sound them out about what they are expecting. For example - If they have set an agenda you could ask about this. |
| Giving a presentation |
The biggest tips are to be prepared, know what your audience wants and be confident on what you are saying. |
| Making a difficult phone call |
Plan in advance what you wish to say. Have range of questions handy will help to. |
| Taking action |
Summarise what you have agreed to do at the during and at the end of a meeting (of any type). Replay back as follows: 'So let me recap, what I am going to do is...., I'll then....., and finally I will.....' |
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